Turning Thoughts into Words

Something that has recently been on my mind and I thought to write about it. First and foremost I hope you have a Happy Easter if you celebrate, and if you don’t, I hope you have an amazing Sunday!

Something that has been on my mind A LOT recently is becoming a little more distant with social media, and also more with replying to my social media messages and comments. Please if you comment or message me I personally don’t check my social media much with comments and or messages quickly. It is nothing personal. I do try every Friday to check in and even reach out to see how some are doing. I try to find a balance because keeping good relationships is healthy for each others soul.

Since January 2020, I have became pretty distant with social media. I started working on personal and professional things that takes quite a bit of my time, and while I work on my professional projects there are days I personally am distracted mentally because I am constantly thinking about “what’s next” or “then what after I do XYZ.” I am working as much as I can behind the scenes with my personal brands, and other projects that I haven’t quite revealed publicly yet. And on top of all this I try to balance my relationships to keep them healthy as possible, while I work on my professional projects such as my personal brands naming “Victortheinspiration” to name one. I am a son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin, and friend when it comes to my personal life. I try to balance my personal and professional life the best that I can while I work towards what I am working on. While I try to manage balancing my personal and professional life, sometimes I personally am not in the headspace to talk or socialize much because I am distracted about again “what’s next after I do XYZ”. 

So far, I have learned (still am) that while my time is being occupied whether I am working, strategizing, or meditating on my thoughts even. That while project X takes up my time I am also losing time spent somewhere else. For example, when I am working on something it is taking up my time and while it is taking my time I am also losing a moment within time where I am not creating a moment with someone or I am losing the time I have with someone because in reality none of us are getting any younger and no one really knows if tomorrow they will still be here. What I am hoping to get across with you is everything comes with a hidden cost. The price I pay to create something comes at a costs that I am not creating a moment with someone or I am losing the opportunity within the now to make memories with someone, or even myself. In the short term and by short term I am thinking in terms of 1-5 years. When you really really want something or you really really want to create something out of the ordinary it isn’t going to be an easy ride. It is difficult, you may be misunderstood, there isn’t a blueprint on how to go through XYZ and still utilize your time to create XYZ. Sure, there are mentors or information to help you within the process, but everybody’s story is unique. You take with you what is of most use to you within this moment and you continue to put one foot in front of the other in the best of your ability.

Short term you have to work towards what your dream is and you can only hope that once you do hit a certain milestone or your breakthrough moment, only then you can do things with those relationships you may have not responded to as fast or as much as you genuinely had liked. You hope they’re still around, you hope they’re still healthy, you hope they’re still mobile, you hope they’re still even here.

No ones messaged me or said anything that made me write, but I wanted to write because there is at least one person who I know this will help in someway whether that be now or later within the near future.

“The path to growth and the faith you hold is instilled within you for a divine reason. In darkness become the light. In pain become the healer. In adversity become faithful. In chaos become the victor. And if you really want an upper advantage within everything become connected with God for God loves, heals, guides, and protects.” ~Victortheinspiration 

I love you, I appreciate you, and remember grow through what you go through.

Much love,


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